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Desparate Bitches!!


What ever happened to the high standards of women? Why are so many females stooping to new lows to find, get or keep a man? Nowadays men don't even have to work hard to get the nookie.... lately I've been running into a few females that don't even care when it's obvious that the man is TAKEN. And on the rare occasion that you're with a good decent man who instead of hurting females feelings choose to attempt to remain friends, why is it so hard for women to separate the two. (Even tho you warned him.  He wouldn't heed your warning that this trick was after him...lol).  Now us good girls, trying to do as Patsy Cline says and stand by our man are perceived as insecure or weak-minded simply because we get tired of the antics and finally blow off some steam. Now for you ladies that's yelling at me to not be blinded by HIS tactics, trust me I'm not. I fully believe that the main chick should deal with the nigga she with NOT the female throwing salt or the female he seeing on the side. Case in point, look at Swizz Beats and Alicia Keys, he tripping because he thinks his wife should leave Keys out of it. And in actuality, she should. He is the one that promised to love her and he is the one that committed to their relationship...the one she placed her security in. So she should be dealing with him not her... but trust me I fully understand "going off" on these bitches also. Nowadays they'll try to rub shit in your face, talk straight shit but you know what, that nigga should be checked for even putting you in a position to have to deal with the bullshit.  Somewhere along the lines he didn't make himself clear. Somewhere along the lines, he entertained one of those flirty messages - if nothing but acting interested. See when you're a weak-minded woman, and you're throwing yourself at someone that's been ignoring you, then when you get any peak of interest - you think you've made progress with this unavailable man. I want to encourage women to love themselves more, to not become so desparate as to stoop to the lows of pursuing someone that is in a relationship with someone else no matter their advances. Be strong sistahs and Stand up for High Standards.

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  1. Looks like you're putting women up on game. Makes perfect sense, but loneliness is a mugg. So women (and men, for that matter) tend to say "f*ck it" and toss Logic out the window.

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  2. True...but that's why our society is so fu**ed up now. Somebody....Anybody gotz to stand up.
    Thanks, brother.

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